Biologically, the male species have a gene of dominance and the females naturally submit to this; even though they often don’t realise it. That’s why a girl will easily fall for a guy that she well knows is a player–keeping the financial security factors constant. I will give an example of a dude that lives a few rooms away from mine, this guy lays a minimum of 3 girls in a normal week.
He openly brags that his game has improved with experience and feels that he can have all these girls and get away with it. Living on the edge but still not succumbing to undesirables like STDs and early fathering. Anyhow, away from the vanity-fair, these are the most ignored reasons why your boyfriend is cheating on you.
For starters, he has a strong addiction to sex. Of course you are not to blame for his sickness but he has probably suggested this to you in one way or another. You are just too busy to satisfy his untreatable cravings. Brace yourself in the backseat as those that can handle his drive and appetite take control.
Secondly, you’re not a freak. You have failed to make it nasty. Believe it or not, even though your guy won’t easily admit it, most of the things he loves are porn infested. His favourite articles, music and movies are far from clean. From The Mighty Hyena, Fifty Shades of Grey, Game of Thrones et al. He fantasizes about things like using the back door, fellatio, kinky romance and the like; which according to you are only done by certified whores. You got it, that’s why he’s on the loose searching for the ‘certified whores’ who can stand this kinkiness for at least a night.
Lastly, you’re no longer the girl you used to be. You have become overly comfortable ever since you won your trophy-guy. Remember the tight blue hot-dress, the way it caressed your thighs when you danced your tipsy mind away? Remember how he kept glaring at your seductive gestures? Well, why did you suddenly turn into a church-girl? All you’ve managed to do is tame his drinking habits and make him forget about his boys. He is also not telling you that your hostel Watoto Cell bores the hell out of him. Chances are that the girls he is doing are a lot like the old you.
All the above is partially a bunch of bull, boys will be boys. To say a guy isn’t getting it elsewhere is like saying dogs don’t bark. ??
