I met a very loving guy at a graduation of one of my friends, he took care of me that night and days after. I didn’t rush into things, he was in his 4th year when I was in 2nd year, just like any girl, I didn’t say no when he decided we should start dating. I did all the FBI things that girls do, but the guy was clean, and always straight to the point.
See, I like straight forward guys, I hate guys who would go on around a topic instead of making their point. When he wants s*x, he will tell it to you blatantly and such are the guys I can kill for, not shy and again, straight to the point.
We have now been dating for a full year, he gave me everything I ever wanted or desired, he has always treated me as first (at least that’s what my stupid self thought) and now, I am pregnant. Yes, I am in my last year at campus and I am pregnant, but then, I discovered he is a father of three. He has a wife and three kids, all along, he was playing me and I didn’t know, I only found out after looking through his phone and found a pic of him and his seemingly family. He turned out to be like many old men who just look for fun sex in young girls like myself.
After that, I queried him and he admitted he had three kids. Two girls, one boy. I told him i didn’t want anything to do with him anymore and he left.
I am now lonely, he no longer cares as much as before, most of all, I feel betrayed. I trusted him with myself and had hopes that he could be the guy I marry later in life after my graduation but now, I don’t feel like I love him anymore. He claims the kid is not his and that he already has three kids and doesn’t want any more kids, what should I do? Help!
Sarah- KIU
