Asiimwe Mugumya
@Muuya33.
Most freshers come to campus with personal expectations and delusions about campus life, only to be hit hard by the realities on ground. Case in point is this fresher friend of mine at Kyambogo University who was on the phone last night lamenting at the fact that he cannot find any babe in his class to date, ofcourse after continuous failures.
So, to this one discontented fellow, and a million others out there, who, though understandably horny, have failed to get classmates to hang with, here I come with a simple solution. Try out babes from other academic years, other courses, or even other campuses. No one said you are bound to hangout with people from the same locality as you. If you are still worried about how to pull off such a move, I’ll break it down for you;
Try different hanging out spots
You cannot relate with new people if you are not ready to meet them in the first place. To do this, you might have to change your relaxing joints, people you hangout with, and general lifestyle altogether. Try out new bars, clubs, cinemas and the like. For those who don’t go out, try it out some time. Take the chances you have and you won’t be ashamed.
Be open minded
To meet new, better people, my friend, you’ll need to think out of the box. Be sharp. Understand the dynamics of campus life and know that you are required to behave maturely. You might have to let go of some of the kiddish behaviours no grown woman will tolerate.
Grow some balls
A wise man once told me; “confidence is the most sexy thing a guy can wear.” and I totally agree. Babes, whether they be freshers, finalists, working class, whatever, will always admire a confident guy. Every chick wants a guy who will take control of the situation. Be just that, and you’ll be sorted.
Never kiss ass
You might think that when you express lots of emotion, make endless midnight calls and the constant texts, it will prove to the chick that you truly like her and she will allow you some. This is wrong, my brother. Girls just don’t like guys who try so hard. Just relax, let it breathe. You’ll be fine.
