Traditionally, anciently and primevally, men have had an imaginary mandate to spoil and spend on their women. It is more of a courtship I believe; you want to date me, sleep with me and cuddle with me, then you want to spoil me on dates. Well thought out dates at that. Times have obviously changed, just like a woman can be the breadwinner of the family, girls have gotten off their high-end horse and are open to treating their men out. If you are one of these girls and are troubled with where and what to do for your boo, here are some options.
A football match. A literal match with bleaches, beer, popcorn and meat. I don’t know who you are dating but about 95% of Ugandan men are infatuated with soccer. Now I know this maybe discomforting for you because it’s soccer duh, however remember this is for your man. So, you can’t go half ass, you have to go to this match with your cheer-leading game on and root for whatever team he’s supporting. It doesn’t have to be just soccer though, a trip to the Kyadondo rugby grounds can be a mind blowing time for him if that’s how he rolls.
Make him a good meal. It’s a no brainer, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Now get that apron out and whip up a special recipe for that boy who always takes your breath away. After this meal, you can get out an all time classic action movie like Transporter/Rocky Balboa/Terminator or even some of the blockbusters that are blazing right now, and just lounge on the coach, or bed (hostel)
A night out on you. For some people, a trip to the bar is the epiphany of happiness. If that’s the case for your ssebo then it’s what you do.The night life is like code for boo is paying for everything because the guys always buy the drinks. Switch it up, head to a bar, buy him all the rounds he can endure, throw in a plate of ribs and even challenge him to a game of pool. Because it’s unexpected for him to go out to a bar and not spend, he will appreciate the gesture, trust me.
Take him shopping. I know this is usually a sugar mummy thing to do, but if you have your money, there’s no harm in spoiling your hun-hun with it. First of all know what kind of guy he is; a watch guy, a shoe guy, a gadget guy? Take him shopping and let him pick out what he likes, of course with a budget in mind. It’s medically dumb to spend that much and be broke the next day just to ask him for money. Stick to a budget, but a generous one obviously.
Tidy up his messed-up life. Hold up, I’m not saying you are ought to clean up after a young adult because you ain’t his mama. Nonetheless, you know how guys are messy and dirty, they don’t organise and haven’t gotten around to knowing where a dirty plates goes no, it’s not under the bed. The trick is to surprise him so don’t clean up with him lounging around. Get his key and do some cleaning, arrange his clothes, leave him fresh food in his fridge and leave your perfume everywhere. Yes, he will second guess coming to a cleaned room with another girl if it’s filled with your perfume. Now don’t go rearranging his house, changing his furniture and all, just tidy up to a non-controlling level.
Honestly you know your man by now. You know what makes him tick and what puts a smile to his face, so just do that. This boy goes the extra mile all the time to impress you so it surely can’t hurt to do the same. Any girl that’s completely smitten with her boo will find the contents in this article entirely obvious. When you like a boy, you always go out of your way to show it.
