There’s a lot of focus put on what to do to in bed, people barely pay attention to what they also shouldn’t do in bed. Some of the simple things you may do may turn your partner off. We aren’t perfect and sometimes we unconsciously do things and these things we do, could taint our bedroom life. They totally ruin it for us and I believe no one wants a bedroom life that’s in ruins. We all dream of having a great time in bed and I guess that starts with us knowing what we should try as much as possible to avoid in bed;
Passing gas.
Passing gas(farting) has never been pleasant regardless of the time and place and this also includes bed. Doing it will only turn your partner off so try to control that gas!
Checking your phone.
Yes, you’re a phone addict that’s not getting contested but keep your phone addiction out of bed. You can always check your phone after, it’s not going anywhere.
Talking too much.
This is too much of a distraction from the fun that could be happening. The only conversation you should be making is physical talk between your bodies and a few words here and there maybe.
Screaming like you’re in a porno movie.
You don’t want to come off as someone that’s trying to act something they’ve seen. It’s a total turn off and besides that it’s scary.
Reprimanding your partner.
Sometimes the other person may do something you don’t like, tell them nicely what does it for you instead. Telling them off totally kills their interest in the sex.
Faking an orgasm really badly.
Women sometimes need to fake orgasms, but if you’re going to do it, do it artfully. Making him know that you’re faking it will only kill his confidence and ego too and believe me a man needs that to thrive.
Comparing your partner to someone you’ve had sex with in the past.
It doesn’t matter whether it’s a positive or negative comparison, just the mere mention of someone you’ve had sex with or even people you’ve had sex with means you’re thinking of them and that is totally not right.
Reverting to your favorite position.
Unless you have a shared favorite position, you have to consider the other person’s interests too otherwise you’ll just come off as selfish and no one wants a selfish lover.
Lying quietly and doing nothing.
Call it the star fish syndrome, this is for the case of women. It’s totally dull and boring and obviously a total turn off. Do something physically, don’t just lie there as though you were paralyzed.
The list goes on and on, do a mental check and try and find out the things you may be doing that could actually be turning your partner off. You could even talk about it together if you like.
