I am Joab, a third year student of procurement at Makerere University Business School (MUBS). I have dated this babe for, well, over 4 months but it seems like I have started boring her or my vibes are now stale. Whether we are making love, trying to cuddle or having a conversation, she seems distracted as she is always on her phone.
She claims to love me but I am now afraid- does she have another guy, who is she always texting to even ignore my tiny lovely complements that made her fall for me in the first place. Is it me, her, what the flying f*ck is happening??
Hey Joab, relationships are quite sensitive these days unlike back in the day when you needed to communicate, you had to travel miles to the post office and wait for weeks to get a reply. Everything is digital now but that doesn’t explain why she is always on her phone.
Truth be told, you could be boring or better yet, she is now over you and wants to move on. On the contrary girls today are always on their phones gossiping and taking selfies wilst leaking nudes to their side guys. God forbid she be talking to some other man.
I suggest you sit down as a couple and try to get to the bottom of this, decide whether to drop the relationship or for her to reduce her digital time and offer you her ears, eyes, and whole body whenever you need it, otherwise, as I see it, your relationship is on a downward spiral.
