Makerere University Business School [MUBS] girls are considered “bad” girls, ruffians and above all, ratchet with no hope of marrying in the near fututre. Today, allow me demystify why the so-called ‘bad girls’ or ‘ruffians’ are more wife material than the ‘Holy’ UCU girls.
Trust me, no guy marries a ‘bad girl’ fully knowing that she’s ‘bad’ in the real sense of the word (i.e. Sexually promiscuous, etc). Let’s not get things twisted.
The truth of the matter (why ‘bad’ girls generally tend to marry faster) is that ‘bad’ girls know how to give a man exactly what they have realized that he likes. They’re vastly experienced (having been with truckloads of men); so they have a near accurate idea of what most men really want in a wife: a ‘non-nagger’, an agreeable partner that knows how to manage his temperament, a good cook, an ‘old-fashioned’ wife without silly notions of feminism/equality, a great care-taker and care-giver (both in and out of bed), etc. When they identify a good guy and potential husband (
When they identify a good guy and potential husband who knows nothing about their previous sexploits, they’re excellent at playing the ‘wife material’ part and making the good guy take the plunge. Indeed some of them even end up with long-lasting successful marriages as they really play the game well till the very end.
On the other hand, the so-called good girls are mostly really not that good. They’re often confused pretenders who are self-absorbed and unwilling/incapable of knowing what men TRULY want in a wife.
Rather, they are obsessed with cloudy and exaggerated notions of their own goodness/desirability and remain in that illusion with the hope that prince charming would jump out of the Big Screen and marry them warts and all. They feel no need to rein in their self-centredness and they also do not see the need to ‘prove’ themselves to the man who’s truly a good guy.
Another category of ‘good’ girls with this problem involves those that are really good – not at all promiscuous: with very pious lifestyles and good morals. However, they are often insecure and forbidding. If a decent guy walks up to them, he’s sure to get a cold shoulder – either because the girl feels she’s not fine enough for him, or because she feels the guy is just another wolf looking for sex. Either way, she loses every potential suitor by building a wall of steel around herself. How then is she supposed to find a husband?
