My name is Maria, I am a 3rd year Law student from Uganda Christian University (UCU). I have been in an open relationship for over 2 years and all has been gold and sugar with my partner till recently when he told me that he has started getting jealous regardless of the fact that he is also having sexual relations with other people. Unfortunately, I love sex too much and I am not willing to settle as yet. However, he is very clingy and he keeps threatening every man that comes my way. How do I get my freedom back from this relationship hungry maniac? Please Help.
Hey Maria, most men are selfish when it comes to the people they claim to love. I am not trying to equate women to property in anyway. However, you should know that men are simply little boys inside. Any man would accept an open relationship just to make you happy and keep you close but over time, they become possessive, well as it’s fun to have many girls around, men always want to have that one to themselves alone and in this case, you are that one.
I know open relationships especially on the side of the girl is quite fun but like in any other relationship, communication is key. Get your partner, sit him down and tell him what you want, if it means ending the relationship, please do.
However, Maria, I hope you are having protected sex so as to be safe at all costs, open relationships although fun come with extreme consequences but these can be avoided when you have the banana wrapped.
