My name is Sasha, I am 22 years and a finalist at the MUBS while my boyfriend Joel, who is 3 years my senior, is studying law at MUK.
We are in this fresh relationship but surprisingly on my first date with him, he invited me out but it was such a disappointment – that he didn’t give me even water or a single shilling; and just pretended that a friend had stolen the money on his ATM that day, how convenient! I took it easy and found my way back to my place with the few coins that he gave me and added up the rest of my fare for myself.
Another time, he again pressurized me to visit him, and I was I was hopeful for better; but even then we went without drinking even water – the situation was worse this time. We had a meal, but it was posho and beans from the uni dining hall and it was as cold as if they were just from the fridge. This was late at night, past midnight. Of course i had no other option but to stay for my safety to avoid travelling back home late at night.
I slept with him,we had sex and in the morning, he gave me left over posho from the previous night as breakfast. He didn’t prepare me anything else; and until I left his place at noon, there was nothing we ate.
This time, he pretended again that he had no money, he didn’t even give me a coin for transport! I have been feeling unwell lately, and i realised after tests that I am now pregnant for such a foolish boy!!
What should i do because I even don’t think he can fund an abortion! I intend to tell him but if he denies this pregnancy, should I report him to the police? And is this guy really serious with me with all this kamanyiro!!!!
I need advice please.
