My name is Joseph, I am a student from Mbarara University of Science and Technology [MUST]. I met Sheila a few months ago and we started pushing out, she is a beauty and I love her so much. But, she is so close to her male best friend who happens not to be me to the extent that many people think they are dating and that I am just a side dish. What bothers me the most is that on many occasions, she stays at his place and I am afraid they might be fucking. What should I do?
Joseph, son of Jacob, don’t be sold into this slavery of love. If you are not the best friend of your better half, then there is a problem. Under no circumstance should the best friend over shadow the lover unless the lover is the best friend.
You are being played. But, for precaution, you should have this talk with her. Define the line that shouldn’t be crossed, tell her about your worries and fears. If she truly loves you as you do, she will understand and try to limit herself, if she doesn’t, you move on.
