I am James a second year student at Makerere University Business School [MUBS]. A few months ago, I fell in love with a very lovely girl from the same university, our love has bloomed and bloomed and for 3 months, we had never talked about sex. Last week, I brought up the topic and we ended up in my room, I got my condom on and the mood was set, we cuddled to the point where I had to put it in. Unfortunately, she told me to first do kachabali which I had only read on this very website and well, I went a head and gave it a try. she refused me from entering, not even the top entered and this has gone on thrice now. I love her but I need real sex, what should I do?
Hey James, I bet you know that many women can reach orgasm by stimulating their clitoris which kachabali is greatly loved for. Other girls are simply virgins or hate the slight pain that comes with sex but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want to reach orgasm, such is the case with your girl friend.
Don’t give up on her yet and neither should you resort to masturbation. Talk to her and get to know why she never let’s you penetrate her and from there you can have a solution. For now, perfect your Kachabali and you never know the next girl you meet might love both.
-Fixer
