Many students confess to masturbating, Kachaballi or hand stroke as a way of sexual self-pleasure. Masturbation is very harmful and dangerous to a person’s wellbeing. Apart from making you lose self-respect, for dudes it can cause erectile dis-function and immature ejaculation, as well cause the feeling of not wanting sex or sexual displeasure in both men and female.
Masturbation is a very addictive act and more addictive than booze for both females and males. Inserting objects in your private parts for pleasure seems good but it’s just a hype, the pleasure is always short lived. Let’s examine how you can stop indulging in that act.
1. Masturbation is evil.
No Bible or Quran codons this act of self-pleasure. Just know that whenever you masturbate, you are disobeying the Most High, the one that created you. Once you believe that what you are doing is wrong and you try to avoid it, you will surely desist from this evil act for good.
2. Avoid seclusion or being alone.
They say an evil mind is a devil’s workshop, so why keep your mind idle all the time? Whenever you are idle you will find anything to make you pleased. Concentrate on doing constructive work or listen to music and above all chill and have time with your friends. Avoid being alone most time or else you will find yourself doing it.
3. STOP watching pornography, viewing erotic materials.
This is one of the biggest causes of masturbation. Whenever you watch an erotic movie or read material that arouses your feelings sexually, you get attracted to indulging in masturbation. Clear your mind from all the rubbish of sex, delete all those funny clips of women wiggling their butts from your phone and STOP watching pornography. It’s that simple.
4. Open up to a trusted friend, Seek Counselling.
The reason you hide while performing that evil act of masturbation is because you don’t want people to see you. Yes, it’s also because you never open up to someone you trust about your feelings, fears and addiction. Whenever you open up to someone loyal, you heart feels relieved. Get a trusted friend or counselor and seek advice
5. Get a girlfriend or Boyfriend
Stop being lonely because no man is an island. There is always someone for somebody. Be in a healthy relationship. If you feel like having sex, don’t resort to masturbation but do it with your rightful partner bearing in mind you use protection to be safe. Desire to have sex is normal but it should never lead you to masturbation.
6. Always pray
Temptations are always there but it becomes a sin when you fall prey to the temptation. There is nothing greater or a grip firmer than holding onto your faith and prayer. Whenever you feel like masturbating, say a prayer or two. When you avoid to masturbate for some good time, you will start seeing the act as the worst evil ever and trust me, you would have exited that evil inhuman act. Till next time am out
From Your Brother, Fred Warom with Love.
