I love having a good time and will go where the party takes me. I also enjoy new places and making memories. As such once I find a stranger and we connect, we make memories. Unfortunately it went too far one time and I have never been the same since. It was a regular Saturday night and I wanted to get turnt till early the next morning. I checked my happening app and there was an event at a club.
I put on my best clothes, rallied up my girls and we went. As the night went on, we danced, drank and all the motions of going out. At like 3.pm, this guy and his boys walk in. It felt like cupid was doing his thing, his boys matched up with my girls and the connection was real.
We ended up at his house which was big and beautiful and everything a swanky pad would have. We ended up having sex and I really didn’t want to leave but I knew that my rule about one night stands was to disappear before the sun got bright and hot.
Once the hangover cleared when I was back at hostel, I found missed calls from a random number. I called back. It was him. I almost fainted.
How did he get my number and why was he calling? Didn’t he understand the rules of one night stands?
I quickly shut him down. He wasn’t through, he kept calling me and I tried everything from being rude to blacklisting. It seemed to work. But one month later he used a different number.
So I decided to listen to him and find out what his deal was anyway. To my shock, he wanted a baby for him and his wife from me because apparently his wife was barren. Two bombs went off, he was MARRIED and two he thought I was a BABY MAKING FACTORY!!! I told him NO and blocked that number as well.
I thought I was in a very bad episode of the hostel. I though it was a movie. He wasn’t through with me yet. He kept using his friends to get to my girls to call me. I couldn’t bring myself to tell my girls what his deal was because it was too extreme for me. I simply asked them to shut him down. I hoped and prayed that he didn’t stalk me up to hostel because he had openly approached my friends.
After having to change numbers I kind of felt secure but whenever I phone rings, I hesitate to answer because I keep thinking it’s him and it’s worse if it’s an unknown number. He hasn’t called since but am still freaked out because in truth, I was stalked and so were my friends because as much as they thought the guy had too much hype for me but as he kept looking for me, he followed my friends.
He wasn’t even my biggest fear. My biggest fear was his wife. If he was this crazy, how crazy was his wife?
As told by a Makerere university student
