You may think that you are the main one, yet you are just another pea in the pod that’s because you are not his main chic. There are plenty of guys who have side bae’s, even married men and there are girls who are not aware of the position they are in the guys life… Well ladies and gents let me school you on ways you can identify that oli side piece…
His pet hates you
The pet could be a cat, a dog or even a rabbit that whenever you show up at his place, it’s never happy to see you.. To make it worse it always finds ways to tear a piece of your clothes or make you feel uncomfortable… There madam or ssebo just know you are a side piece.
You are never invited to stay the night after sex
After doing your ‘business’ in the night and first of all you don’t get to cuddle for even 5 mins, and then all of a sudden he starts telling you ways you should go home. To top it all off he even calls you a boda before you suggest to stay, my dear just be sure you are in the red zone and not the main chic.
He/she hangs up on you all of a sudden
This is usually common when you are not there. The guy or babe makes sure if you talk to him, it usually for a very short time, and during that as you are talking and they all of a sudden hang up on you for no apparent reason… i mean if all you hear on the other line is tututututututu… My dear don’t even bother to call back that means the main chic is in the vicinity.
You only go on weeknight dates
This is very rare and i mean rare, do you know why? well let me tell you…. That’s because sometimes he might not want to take you because he doesn’t want to be totally seen with you in public, but if you are to go out, you start moving out of the house at midnight and that’s because his main chic is asleep and she told him, that she won’t be going out. Besides that you will leave the bar at around 6 am so that you can easily go back to your place and sleep there.
He will never share his food with you
For this case, however much you beg him to share a plate, he will never give you some of his food. He will never let you wear any of his clothes, he won’t let you put on his boxers. heck he won’t even give you money for hair. My dear if this has not raised flags to you then you have a problem.
You always find out things about him on social media
Whenever anything new happens in his life, you will never know that’s because you are not that important in his life. Therefore social media is his passage way for you to his life. You will always find out what’s new with him on social media.
His ‘sister’ in pics doesn’t look like him
There’s this one babe, he keeps pointing or posing with in pics as his sister, my friend that’s not his sister but his main girl. So if you never knew about that well now you know, be on the look out for that one babe in his pictures whom he claims is his ‘sister.’
Hope these tips be of help because it’s better to know now than to never be aware where you fall in a relationship.
