Being in a relationship is not a bad thing but sometimes we forget our sisters and brothers in the single zone. Being single is a choice for some people while others who are in relationships that are mistakes wish you be single. So let me give you tips my single lads on how to enjoy this and still be happy.
Give yourself a chance to be happy
This does not happen in the snap of a finger most especially if you are recovering from a failed relationship. There will be times when you’ll feel like you’re invisible, no one will ever love you, you’re wasting your life, your life is passing you by… and a whole lot of other negative self talk but that doesn’t mean its the end of the world for you, better things await and at least at that time the best thing to do is to take yourself for a walk or watch a movie and go out have fun with some friends.
You don’t have to spend
You know when you are in a relationship, this is mainly for the guys you have to consider buying stuff for your other half. It’s even worse when you have a partner who is irresponsible with money and has no job. You tend to spend a lot but when you are single those financial problems are not even in your budget and you can pay your bills in peace. You can use the money you earn how you want to use it.
Consider Health benefits involved
When you’re single, you don’t have to go through the emotional stress, dysfunctional relationships, all the worry that comes with it you know weight loss and to much stupidity (forgive my language) of being in love. It is revealed that single people get more sleep than partners who share a bed and also eat better.
Appreciate the freedom you have
Some of you don’t really mind sharing your time with your partner or even spending less time with your friends but you know when you are single, you don’t have to worry. You can spend your time the way you want without someone telling you what to do. You don’t need to worry about pleasing anyone but yourself. That means that you have more time for your hobbies, personal interests, career, and overall well-being.
You can choose to mingle and be in a relationship whenever
You may have less sex when you’re single but trust me darlings its worth it and do you know why? I’ll tell you… because when that time comes for you to get your groove on you will enjoy more than someone who is in a relationship and has it everyday. Not only that if you can get in a relationship anytime you feel happy.
Meet new people
This might not be necessarily for romantic reasons but instead to expand your friend base. Besides new people come with new memories and these memories can help you forget the old heartbreak or make you happy. Try it out, explore, laugh and most importantly be Happy with yourself.
Being single is not for everyone and some people thrive when they have the love and companionship of one person. always know that being in no relationship is better than being in a wrong one.
