Hi Campusbee Uganda members,
“I really have a very big problem. I am a senior six graduate. I dated a girl from Makerere university, I really had a lot of fun time together with her. I took her to all the nice places any young girl admires to go to in Kampala.
After six months in the relationship, I started getting these disappointing comments from her I hear she wants to get married to a rich and educated man possibly an engineer, with more than one car, with a swimming pool house etc.
I really loved this babe with all my heart and I sacrificed every little penny that I had to make her happy, but with just one year in the relationship this girl dumped me that am not her class, am not educated and my job cannot provide all her demands.
After just two weeks of our break up, she calls me to introduce her new engineer boyfriend who has just completed his Bachelors of civil engineering. That made me more heart broken because this made me think she has just been using me to keep around.
About one month and half with her new boyfriend, she calls me and tells me she is #pregnant but his boyfriend wants her to abort.
She tried checking in her contacts list and the only person she thinks can help her is me. The boy asked her to abort and forget about him because he would want to be with responsibility at his tender age.
Her parents are demanding her for the boy to go and see them and accept responsibility over the pregnancy.
She is really on my neck, she wants me to lie to her parents that i’m the one responsible,she wants me to live with her under the same roof so that I take care of her until she gives birth, she wants me to help her get a job, she wants to always take her for maternity checks etc.
Please advise me, should I really welcome her back into my life after the disappointment, or I let her suffer the consequences of her action?
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